Man, Woman, …DIRT? 

I just “LOVE” all this talk about women’s rights! Don’t get me wrong, I am all for equality! The problem with equality is, women want to do some things that men are stronger and more capable of. Generally men perform jobs that women would never be able to do unless they had the body mass index necessary to do so, that is.
Ladies do you forget who we designate to take out the trash, who shovels snow, and who changes our flat on the side of the road? The majority of heavy occupational work goes to the male worker, not the female. I can hear you thinking, well, we push out babies! Yes, that is hard and we were built to hold and deliver a baby or two. Men were built to work, lift, protect, build, drive long distances, and put up with daily nagging. Men are built to focus on one task at hand, they are not machines. 

Women on the other hand spin at 100 miles an hour trying to finish, fix, create, simplify, schedule, educate, clean, cook, work, care, pamper, and the list goes on. Just because women were built to multi-task doesn’t mean that they should now pick up a mans job. 
So, where does all of this Man, Woman, he, she, it… come from? 
LABELS, exactly that! We as “Humans” are separated from one another with an overall name to specify an individual into one category. 

I would like to be called DIRT! Yes, you read that right! I am a firm believer in human rights, and equal pay, but I am not supportive of equality in the workforce, seriously? So, you are going to ask me to lift a 250lb box and put it into the back of that truck? That is when I would call over a “Man!” 
I personally think we tend to take equality a bit too far these days. 

We are humans who all rose from the same DIRT, we are not man, woman, it, we are DIRT. Now, the trick in life is to not treat each other like dirt. That is the true meaning behind equality. Labels, tags, and numbers, are harmful, cruel, and inhumane. They are meant for products in your local store, not for a person. 
This can be fixed by just using our names right? No, not exactly. Many people have the same name because of the lack of originality I guess. My birth name is extremely common. Which makes it hard to separate yourself from many others like you. This is why the government gave us all a nine digit number. 
What would have been great for the government to do is every time a baby is born put the name in a database where the name cannot be used again, that would force some serious imagination! We would no longer be compared to another person with that same name “Becky with the good hair!” I know a lot of Becky’s! 

If you had a choice while in the womb to pick your sexuality, name, and religion, what would you choose? I think I shall stick to Dirt for now until I discover my answer. 
“Then the LORD God formed a man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.” -Genesis 2:7

Not PREPARED for having a child, ARE YOU!!!

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I have been out of the loop for a while, BUT I’M BACK Baby!!!

I am almost certain you have heard all about this individual who not so long ago filmed her abortion then posted the video on facebook, stating that she was not ready for children!
HMMM?…. HANG ON TIGHT GUYS it’s going to be wild!!!!

First of all this lady is full of BULL!!! If you are not ready for a child or not wanting to have children then get a chastity belt honey, and stop looking for an easy way out!  I completely understand if a person decides to abort a child due to the following reasons…..

#1 If you were RAPED and make that decision on your own without people forcing you!

#2 If your doctor advises you to abort due to an illness that can not be operated on or disease that could kill the child and mother. (Being that it is in fact 100% deadly.)

I personally feel that abortion is a cop out for any other reason than mentioned above!

Many* (not all) woman now a days have absolutely no respect for life or relationships. Woman are so desperate to have a man ‘love them’  that they literally try to get pregnant to trap a man when in fact this man they are trying to trap just wanted a one night stand with an EASY lady! Then you have those mentally challenged individuals who purposely have as many children as they possibly can to get sympathy from the government or to be supported in the future by their children, good luck with that! Then you have the insecure abused woman who is forced to provide her husband with a SON and she keeps popping out daughters! Unfortunately there are also those prostitutes who will sleep with anything, that don’t care whether or not they use protection (Honestly their disgusting behavior should never have an option to be protected by a condom.)Basically condoms CONDONE bad behavior!!! (Interesting name CONDOM? Hmm!)

The point here….If you are married, have children happily without any judgement! If you are having (what I call promiscuous) fun, and find yourself pregnant, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR DUMB NON THOUGHT OUT CHOICES! If you are popping out kids for that boy that you have always wanted but are getting girls, BE HAPPY WITH YOUR GIRLS AND STOP TRYING TO BE GOD BY TAKING LIVES!

I strongly disagree with taking a life, do the right thing, because it could come back to you far worse in the future when you want a child and ruined your chances.

Are you wearing BUTT PADS?

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Not everyone will agree with me on this one, but try to have an open mind as well as a little maturity!
We all come in different sizes….Tall, short, thick, thin, chubby, bony, average, busty, hippy and many more!
The thing is you need to make what you have work and the only way to do that is to wear what goes with your BODY, not what you wish your body would look like!
Lets get specific…. If you are a size 10 don’t try to squeeze into a size 1. Common sense!
If you are a woman age 35 don’t try to dress like your 21!

If you have NO BOOBS don’t try wearing two or three bra’s to look bigger? REALLY??
Men notice, if you strip down and he is going to wonder where the rest of your boob went?
Same goes for the ladies who wear Butt Pads, REALLY?

It looks nice with clothing on, but looks like Tyler Perry’s Madea with clothes off!!! 
Look there is someone for everyone out there!
You need to embrace the parts of you that you don’t like…. and exaggerate the beautiful parts….are you with me?

Let’s explain……
Personally I don’t like my nose, never have and probably never will, BUT I can tolerate my eyes, SO I wear makeup that opens, brighten and pops the eyes therefore taking most of the attention away from my defective nose!
Like Men, for example they wear colorful boxers with fire flames going up the back to hide that they have no BUTT at all!
Okay, all joking aside, lets start loving ourselves and finding one thing that we can display better to be able to carry ourselves with more confidence.

HELP! MY EARS ARE BLEEDING!!!

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Talent? What’s that?

Oh I know…..

Electronically altered voices, crazy screaming women, insane lyrics, and devilish men frightening you half to death with their deeper than deep evil voices! Repetitive lyrics that tell you the same thing over a hundred times, so you never forget the song, EVER! Made up words like “shawty”, “isht”, “waka waka”, and my favorite “fa shizzle my nizzle”!

Beyonce’s Mrs. Carter Album makes me roll my eyes a bit, with that lovely worded song… “Bow Down B******!”… and President Obama likes her music? Hmm?

Back to what the industry thinks, is REAL talent….

I encountered this song, that apparently is all the rage! Ylvis the lead voice’s face was emotionless as he sang animals noises and jumped around screaming calls of the wild! All I could do was SMH! (Shake My Head)

If you dare, here is the link to this insane song…..enjoy 😛 “What does the fox say”

Now the shocking thing, (okay not that shocking considering this world is full of people who know nothing of TALENT) THIS SONG ALREADY HAS 1,917,914 LIKES ON YOUTUBE????

If I wanted to hear something funny or intentionally horrible for just a laugh, I would listen to Wierd Al Yankovic, Veggies Tales or Parry grip’s songs about waffles, iphones and vegetables.

Now a days music is a JOKE!

Such as: Squealing Britney Spears, Bipolar Nicki Minaj, Repeat it 100 times Rihanna,

Crazy Korean Psy, Mr. World wide Pitbull, Confused Drake, Angry Lil Wayne and those who are very controversial

People are becoming famous by singing meaningless absurd JUNK and getting paid some serious cash????

I need to come up with a few totally random bipolar songs and get that house in Dubai!

SO, what ever happened to meaningful lyrics, soulful tunes, and beautiful voices that were real, not running through a machine to sound like a robot.

(Auto Tuned)… Like This, Rolling my eyes!

Where did the violins, saxophones, piano and guitar solos go?

What is most shameful is, no one cares how raunchy, disgusting, sex filled, and down right inappropriate many lyrics are, they accept it or ignore it, but never raise their voices to say how they are outraged by refusing to buy and download it all together!

Do you know that your kids are listening to things either in school, on YouTube, by FaceBook copy paste, or borrowing iPods from friends that have songs that you would choke up and pass out if you heard what the songs say or insinuate…. such as ” We Can’t Stop” By Miley Cyrus Where she sings proudly; “Somebody here might get some now”…. or Selena Gomez “Come & Get It” the title says enough. Is this great or what? Hey kids, go have fun with everybody, anybody, lose respect and get used up!!!! It’s bad enough these “KIDS” making albums are acting like strippers and whores with their songs, dress, an attitudes. You can’t let your children listen if you can’t listen first and then tell them what is wrong. Let them listen, not just to the beat, but get them to notice the words and teach them to find better lyrical music.

Personally my daughter is 13 and hears a lot of music, she came to me horrified that Miley Cyrus was in her words; “Butt Naked on a big ball acting crazy!” She also said; “I don’t understand why people have to swear so much and talk about bad stuff like its nothing!”

When I think about what my daughter, many kids and adults alike have to say about this generation of UNGODLY music, I guess “What Does The Fox Say” lyrically isn’t that bad!

When I was young I loved listening to:

Patsy Cline (Crazy) Roy Orbison (Bridge Over Troubled Water)

ABBA (Chiquitita) Michael Jackson (Earth Story)

Whitney Houston, Celine Dion, Ray Charles, and many bands such as Boston, Chicago, Journey, Van Halen and of course the classical music like Chopin, Beethoven, Bach, and Mozart that helped me study after school!

I respect that everyone has different tastes and times change, making it harder to keep going with the same old same old. Don’t get me wrong I love Katy Perry’s new album Prism. I am not a fan of everything she has put out there, but her latest album has a deeper meaning and is more lyrical as well as her putting her emotions out there with her song ” By the grace of God” which she covered live and sang with her heart. There is barely any of that left in music anymore.

I really enjoy music from Adele, Avril Lavigne, Cranberries, Lady Antebellum, Demi Lovato (Sky Scraper), NickelBack, Colplay, Lifehouse, Matthew West, Jason Gray, and many more.

I also follow the American Idol winner Kelly Clarkson and have to say, what a powerful voice and extremely well written songs. The odd thing with her albums is I can relate to every single album she has written in the year it was released as if she was writing my life story.

That’s how you know these singers are real and talented, when they touch something in you, whether it be a memory, an event, the perfect wedding song, or just a picker upper, music is meant to twist your emotions for the good or the bad which ever it may be and if you feel nothing, then its not worth listening to!

Let me leave you with Lorde’s Song “Royals” where she basically says how these people in the music world are, and sums it up pretty well!

I hope now you will think about what your listening to, because it’s not just about the beat!